Like many women, I have a long history of falling for the wrong men. Without realizing it, I have always been attracted to those who needed some sort of empowerment and healing. I never fell for the men with money, for the men with impressive job status or credentials, or even for the men who truly cared for me. I fell for the ones that other women often found to be completely unattractive, uninteresting or "not datable". But I saw in them something that others couldn't see.